Didn't they always say we were the lucky ones?

Hmm. I just feel like talking about relationships today. I dont know why. I feel like everyone's got their own point of views about relationships but which is the "right" view? or wait, is there even a "right" view? I honestly don't know.

I've always liked the dating part when it comes to relationships. The part where boy meets girl, boy falls for girl, boy tries to impress girl and boy really cares and takes notice of every little thing that the girl likes/dislikes. Those are probably the sweetest times. Boy wants to please the girl in everything he does so she'll accept him.

Then the girl accepts boy and they get together. Things are still pretty much the same in the beginning, both are still madly in love, still in the "high" of being together. Then out of nowhere, without anyone expecting, things take a turn. Boy and girl starts showing their true colours. Girl gets jealous of little things the boy does, boy doesn't say I love you that much anymore, girl takes it the wrong way, gets angry, boy.......etc etc.

Then it's all about just getting through each day without fighting or just one day without saying a mean thing to one another. Both have to force themselves to give in or tolerate the other. What happened to forever and ever and happily ever after? It's like they're in a relationship without being in a relationship. What does it really mean to be in a relationship? Just the status? Or to be able to do couple-y stuffs?

I think there's always a limit once you're with someone. It doesn't mean you have to stop your old ways of whatever you like doing but maybe just tone it down a bit, as a sign of respect to your other half. Being in a relationship should NEVER weigh you down, make you cry yourself to sleep every night or make you feel bad about yourself. If it does, it's not worth it. Really. You deserve much better.

So back to the question, what does it really take to be in a relationship? Go figure.

xoxo, elvyna.

P/s: I don't even know if half the things I say here even makes sense. oh wells 0_O